I went to my elder uncle's place at around 1pm. I was trying not to be so early so that I can avoid confrontation. To my horror, I was already one of the earliest. I was thinking that's it. A confrontation on the 1st day of cny is unavoidable. But minute after minute, hour after hour, there is no signs of her and my nieces. Even my father is absent - with his phone off. My uncles and myself was unable to reach him during the whole afternoon.
5 plus in the afternoon, I got a bit edgy and decided to leave for my father's place to take a look. Haha it is a relief to see him alright. Well not quite actually. He is having a massive hangover from the drinking the previous night. Can see that he is totally sehz. Btw, they were not drinking beer, they were drinking hard liqour. That's the reason that I didn't stay for long last night, I have not reached that "level" of drinking but can see that it could be harmful to the body from what I see today.
Apparently, my sister was there at his place at around 2 plus. So she didn't dare to proceed to the elder uncle's place. Haha she proves me wrong this time round. Maybe the fear to answer those questions with regards to the latest "wedding" story overcome the need for money.
But I am not complaining. At least a confrontation is avoided. But I just cannot understand the elders - there would be always some who keep saying that I should give way, try to understand and help. I have thought about this from different prospectives before. Well it is easier to say than done, after so many first-hand bad experiences, I am just not interested to get involved anymore.
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