First Run of the year 2009

I finally went for my first run for the new year today. It was a 8km leisure jog along the Ulu Pandan park connector, I started from Ghim Moh and jog towards Clementi and then back to Ghim Moh, before doing another loop. If I am not mistaken, this is my first time doing 2 loops along this particular route. Haha I think it's part of human instinct, you are so close to home, why would you run further away from home again. But I resisted the temptation today. That is a good start for my new year resolutions I hope. Oh I didn't go for the weekly R2unners training at MR as it is cancelled for the week.

Went to visit my father yesterday evening after work. Discussed a bit about the hot topic - about my sister's re-marriage. I understood that my future brother in law has visited my father the other day. And hahaha my father got a first hand experience on how my sister will react when things dun go according to her way. My sister wants a high profile wedding at a 4/5 stars hotel, which my father is not supportive of. But the fact is that this is her 2nd marriage, going to be 32 with 3 kids which are all in primary school now. So hmmm well. My father is in a difficult situation, traditions and customs is one thing, the fact is that there is still bad blood among the extended family relatives, since she skipped the funeral of my grandmother over my decision to refuse her to bring my late mother who is herself suffering from multiple strokes to the wake. True, years has passed but will anyone forget this unfilial act? Relatives can pretend that they have forgave you but the fact is that I know many doesn't. So she still expects the whole extended family to turn up for the wedding? I think she can wait long long.

Oh ya haven share what happened, she was still cool when my father told her not many relatives would turn up. But once she reached her home, she suddenly send my father a sms that she is not going to get married already, and then switched off her phone, then make a scene as usual, so jialat that my future bro in law made a call back to my father. Hahahaha.

I am actually watching this development by the side, my starhub sim card seems to be behaving in a weird way nowadays. I think it was trying too hard to connect from my office which has no reception and it went berserk. Now even has reception, the phone doesn't seem to react much. I did receive some msg here and there, but haha the other day, I did a testing using my other line and call the starhub number, you can hear that it is ringing over the line, but actually my phone did not react leh. Hahahaha. So it can considered as a good timing. I rather chose not to get involved.

The biggest joke that my father shared with me last night is that she is not losing weight at all for the wedding. Hmmm those friends who went for my late mother's wake would get the joke because they saw her in person before.

Haha I am not a bastard. My father and I will attend when the day comes if she insist to carry on with her plan. But any more - not really interested.

I am very happy this way, without her in my life. I think it is very hard for anyone to understand. But those darkest years of my life, I ain't gonna to forget it soon as well.