Nomination...

I was told that my second niece was admitted into hospital yesterday. I didn't response because i was on duty. And i don't feel like getting involved. It is the 3rd time in barely a few months that she's hospitalizated. Is she really sick? Is her chest pain for real? Or is someone teach her so she can claim insurance? I don't know and i don't feel like asking.

And my father asked for my personal particulars yesterday to make a nomination. Maybe it seems to be normal to most of you. But it was strange to me because my father last made his nomination 34 years ago, a few months before his marriage to my mother. All these years, he never amended his nomination, despite being married, and the birth of my sister and me.

Over these few years, my sister has consistently kept asking him to make a new nomination almost every time she sees him. At her "peak", she even brought nomination form to him, and offered to help him to fill up the form. But no matter how she tried, my father didn't want to make a new nomination.

So it came to me as a surprise that he finally made a new nomination.

But it's good. No matter what's the content, it's good to draw the line to prevent any dispute next time.

Especially with my sister. Enough said...

Oh ya i have yet to make my nomination too. I wanted to give 50-50 to my parents. But my mother haiz.... I don't know. Hahaha. Yes i didn't make any nomination yet because i dun trust my sister to handle my mother's share. Still looking for the ideal solution.

But but but i still feel strange. A sudden nomination. A resting place. A gold tablet. Hmmm just feel kinda weird. Will i be doing the same when i hit 63? Maybe it's good to prepare early...